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Persuasive Communication Skills Blogs
Persuasion is important because, in order to succeed, you need to gain the willing cooperation of others. And therefore, you need to persuade people that the content of your message is:
- True
- Right/ Good
- Practical
If other people listen to your message and conclude that its content is UNTRUE, or WRONG or BAD or IMPRACTICAL, then they will not give you their cooperation.
Truth. Persuasive communicators need to ensure that their messages are true. And perceived to be true. Than means that they must be able to show their sources and validate their authenticity.
Right (Good). Persuasive communicators need to ensure that their messages are right, meaning Morally right and good. That means linking their message to high order moral principles such as justice and fairness. If the message is perceived to be an expression of the morally right and good, then you are more likely to gain agreement.
Practical. Persuasive people need to be able to ensure that their methods are perceived as practical, DO-ABLE. If the listener perceives the message is good but IMPRACTICAL, (impossible to implement) then they won’t want to give their cooperation.
If you want to be more persuasive, then work on your message to make perceived as true, right, good and practical.
Persuasive Communication Skills Blogs
Better Negotiation Skills
10 December 2024Learn practical negotiation skills: set clear goals, trade value, use confident body language, avoid common errors and build a strong BATNA for win-win deals.
Continue Reading >How to Improve My Negotiation Skills
14 May 2024Learn negotiation skills that turn talks into win-win agreements. Get clear prep steps, active listening tips and training to improve negotiation success.
Continue Reading >How to Persuade Others to Do What I Want
9 January 2024Discover how to win willing cooperation without force. Sell clear, personal, long-term benefits and simple persuasion techniques to guide teams and lift output.
Continue Reading >The Art of Negotiation
11 July 2023Boost your negotiation skills with clear strategies, SMART goals, BATNA planning and communication. Learn to reach win-win deals in work and life daily.
Continue Reading >The Power of Evaluative Questions
23 May 2023Learn how evaluative questions shape emotion. Replace killer self talk with problem solving checks to lift confidence, control stress and grow a calm mind set.
Continue Reading >Understanding Vs Agreement
10 May 2023Sharpen your communication skills by making sure listeners understand before you seek agreement. Use clear language and solid reasons to avoid costly conflict.
Continue Reading >The Rhetorical Triangle
13 December 2022Learn how the rhetorical triangle blends ethos, logos and pathos so you can build credibility, craft logical arguments and spark emotion in every talk or email.
Continue Reading >Why are Some People Dangerous?
2 February 2021Learn how to spot dangerous speakers who sound inspiring but push irrational ideas. Use five logical test questions to protect yourself with rational thinking.
Continue Reading >How to Persuade People to Act on your Ideas
8 December 2020Learn how to persuade people to act on your ideas by showing clear benefit, keeping steps easy and proving quick wins. Get persuasive communication tips today.
Continue Reading >How to Master the Art of Sales
19 June 2020Learn a six-step sales process and six communication skills that build rapport, uncover needs and close the sale. Training details inside. Expert tips included.
Continue Reading >Ten Ways to Persuade Someone
28 February 2020Learn ten proven persuasion techniques to persuade and influence anyone. Use logic, emotion, authority and repetition to convince faster and sharpen skills.
Continue Reading >Good and Bad Speech Habits
16 August 2019Learn how speech habits sway your image and pay. Spot four common bad habits, swap in clear, polite language, and watch your career and workplace ties grow.
Continue Reading >How to Improve your Negotiation Skills
2 August 2019Learn ten clear ways to improve negotiation skills: plan ahead, trade not give, set BATNA, stay calm and polite, and write notes to lock in better deals.
Continue Reading >How to Negotiate Properly
21 December 2018Boost your negotiation skills: learn the 3-set model, avoid common mistakes, list must-haves and trade-offs, and create a clear win-win deal every time you meet
Continue Reading >Everything is Negotiable
8 May 2018Learn core negotiation skills: plan entry and exit points, trade concessions, stay logical, and keep a BATNA so you can walk away and still secure fair deals.
Continue Reading >How to Change Someone's Mind
25 August 2017Learn how to change someone's mind without conflict. Use indirect persuasion, question the source, and boost influence with proven tactics from 2024 research.
Continue Reading >Persuasive Communication Skills
18 July 2017Learn persuasive communication fast. Add clear purpose and strong reasons using the words 'so' and 'because' to win support, lead teams, and gain cooperation.
Continue Reading >Four Magic Phrases to Use Every Day
5 May 2017Discover four polite phrases that boost professional communication. Make clear requests, show thanks, question with respect and decline with grace daily.
Continue Reading >Three Steps to Better Communication Skills
29 September 2016Boost your communication skills with three clear steps: state your point, prove it, show its value. Gain faster cooperation at work and in life every day.
Continue Reading >How to be More Persuasive
3 June 2016Learn persuasive communication with four checks: show facts, stress personal gain, map clear steps, promise ease. Turn ideas into a quick yes in any talk.
Continue Reading >Persistence
24 May 2016Learn why persistence matters and discover three proven ways to build it: focus on your goal, team up with positive people, and boost energy with healthy habits
Continue Reading >How to be a More Confident Communicator
17 May 2016Learn five ways to build confident communication: plan your message, slow your pace, watch cues, share talk and use friendly body language to engage any group.
Continue Reading >Impression Management
30 March 2016Learn impression management skills to shape how people see you. Use clear speech, positive body language and a plan to make a good first impression every time.
Continue Reading >Communication Skills: Do you Inspire Other People?
1 March 2016Learn five simple communication skills that inspire others, raise spirits and create a positive effect at work and home. Boost mood and speak with hope.
Continue Reading >Customer Service Training
9 February 2016Customer service training turns first impressions, polite words and need-focused help into loyal buyers and referrals. Boost trust and sales, avoid costly –
Continue Reading >The Way you Speak to People
23 October 2015Learn how polite speech, positive language and respectful communication draw people to you, lift trust and help you gain cooperation at work and home.
Continue Reading >Gain the Co-Operation of Others
29 September 2015Learn how polite requests, clear reasons and warm thanks turn conversations into teamwork. Use these simple tips to gain co-operation and boost personal success
Continue Reading >How to Get the Gift of the Gab
18 September 2015Learn the gift of the gab with three quick talk tricks: visual words, alliteration and the rule of three to grab attention, sound fluent and boost confidence.
Continue Reading >Communication Skills: Etiquette and Politeness
15 September 2015Learn the clear difference between etiquette and politeness, why respectful communication boosts trust, and simple steps to improve your social manners today.
Continue Reading >Present Yourself Positively
19 June 2015Present yourself positively by shaping your words, actions, look and voice. Learn simple tips to make a positive impression and inspire others at work.
Continue Reading >How to Gain Co-Operation
24 February 2015Learn four proven steps to gain cooperation: help first, ask politely, give clear reasons and always thank others. Boost your communication skills now.
Continue Reading >Sphere of Influence
20 February 2015Discover the three spheres of control, influence and concern. Get control tips, grow your sphere of influence and cut stress by acting on what you can change.
Continue Reading >How to Gain More Confidence When Speaking
12 January 2015Learn how to gain confidence speaking in meetings by using four smart questions, shifting self-talk and adding clear value instead of forcing opinions.
Continue Reading >Tips to Improve your Communication Skills
7 October 2014Learn how to improve communication skills fast. Listen more, ask clear questions and gain agreement to influence others while cutting costly errors at work.
Continue Reading >Communication Skills - your Words Have an Awesome Power
19 February 2014Boost your communication skills now. Learn why every word shapes results, how to replace harsh commands with polite requests and give praise that inspiresaction
Continue Reading >How to Improve Interpersonal Communications Skills
8 March 2013Learn 10 proven ways to sharpen your communication skills, from clear speech and active listening to calm conflict handling, persuasive words and body language.
Continue Reading >Effective Communication Skills
13 February 2013Master effective communication through clear speech, open body language, sound logic and concise writing. Build trust, cut wasted hours and lift your career.
Continue Reading >Interpersonal Communication Skills
11 February 2013Learn how to sharpen your interpersonal communication skills by tuning voice tone, body language, clear words and attitude to win trust in face to face talks.
Continue Reading >Building Rapport
5 November 2012Learn how to build rapport in conversation by matching body language, voice tone and words. Master these communication skills to spark trust and boost results.
Continue Reading >Sales Training Course - 8 Reasons Why People Don't Buy your Product
21 July 2011Discover eight reasons prospects hesitate to buy and learn how focused sales training, clear value, trust and a smoother sales process turn 'maybe' into 'yes'.
Continue Reading >Influencing Skills - Being Right is Not Enough to Win
23 March 2011Influencing skills matter more than facts. Learn how clear words, good timing, gentle tone and smart repetition turn your idea into action and gain agreement.
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