Established, since 1997, leading UK based training provider.

A Course on Clear, Confident Communication

A Course on Clear, Confident Communication

A Course on Clear, Confident Communication

Clear communication may be defined as the art of transferring an idea, or piece of information, from your mind, into the mind of another, without distortion, error, omission or misunderstanding: Meaning: the idea or piece of information, in the mind of the listener, at the end of the communication, is exactly the one that you intended the listener to have.

"A course on clear communication" would be a course on how you may use your words to achieve the above stated definition.

If we agree upon this definition of clear communication, you will probably also agree that this is a difficult skill to master.

Sadly, all too frequently, we fail to clearly communicate information and ideas.

The idea or piece of information, in the mind of the listener, at the end of your communication, is, not, the one that you intended. Meaning; that somewhere along the line, the wires were crossed; the meaning was missed, the message was misunderstood, or its definition was lost. And as a result of the mis-communication, the other person is thinking things that you never intended; or, the other person thinks he has understood your words, but has in-fact, misinterpreted the message and has something else in mind. So, then he goes off and implements the wrong action. And later, when you find out what he did, you are annoyed and frustrated that you seem to be surrounded by idiots, who "can't seem to understand a simple instruction".

Remember this rule:

Your ultimate success is dependent on your ability to gain the cooperative assistance of other people.

And in order to gain the cooperative assistance of others you must be able to communicate with them, and leave the right information and the right ideas, in their minds.
You must be able to communicate clearly.

How can you learn to communicate clearly?

One thing you could do is this: You could attend our clear communication skills course.

What kind of things would you learn on the course?

You would learn the specifics of how to ensure that what you mean to say is what you do say.
You would learn the specifics of how to ensure that the other person does not misunderstand what you meant.

Communication Skills Training Communication Skills Training Course Logo

Communication Skills Training

Do you ever think to yourself, "I know what I mean, but I can't explain it"? You need to be able communicate facts, feelings, information and ideas, in a clear, professional and confident manner. If you want to learn more about our communication skills training, please click here.

To get us started, here are five notes on the issue of clear communication

  1. Make clarity of verbal expression, a top priority. Don't accept from yourself sloppy language. Demand from yourself the attempt of using the exact words that denote your exact meaning.
  2. Try to use numbers in your speech. Give exact times, exact amounts, exact measurements. Or at least as exact as the situation allows.
    For example: Don't say, "The journey will take you ages." Say instead, "I estimate that the journey will take between two and two and a half hours." Use numbers to express your message in more exact terms.
  3. Give definitions for all your major terms. Many words are abstract, with many possible meanings and interpretations. It is important, therefore, before you go on, to give a definition of your interpretation of the term,. For example, if you look at the beginning of this blog, you will find that I have started with a definition of the term, clear communication. I did that because communication is an abstract term with many possible interpretations, and I wanted to make sure that you had in mind, my interpretation, before we did anything else.
    That same principle holds at all times.
    Define all your major terms
  4. Speak in affirmative terms
    Speaking in affirmative terms means talk about those things: That do exist. That you are going to do. That you do believe in. That you do like. That you do support. That you are going to see.

Do not talk too much about the opposite. Don't talk about those things:

That do NOT exist. That you are NOT going to do. That you do NOT believe in. That you do NOT like. That you do NOT support. That you are NOT going to see.

  • We do not need to know where you are not going on holiday.
  • We might be interested to know where you are going on holiday.

We are not interested to know what you won't do.

We are interested to know what you will do.

  • We are not interested to know what you can't do about it.
  • We are interested to know what you can do about it.

The fourth principle is, "Speak in affirmative terms".

Distinguish between objective and subjective language

Objective language describes facts that are verifiable by direct sense perception. Objective language is non-emotional, non-evaluative, and non-judgemental.

Example of objective language. "In Britain there are laws governing our conduct".

Subjective language is the opposite. Subjective language is the language of emotion, evaluation and judgements. Subjective language is not factual. It is more opinionated.

Example of subjective language: "In Britain, there are too many oppressive laws governing our behaviour to an intolerable degree."

Question: Can you see, and feel the difference between objective and subjective language?

The point is this: know the difference.

And the point is this: use the right kind of language for the intended purpose.

And the point is this: don't use factual language in situations where emotional language would be required. (For example, if you are proposing marriage, I suggest emotional language.)

And the point is this: don't use emotional language where factual language is required. (For example, if you are giving evidence in court, then I suggest you use factual, objective language.)

Summary

Communication may be defined as the art of transferring an idea, or piece of information, from your mind into the mind of another, without distortion, error or misunderstanding:

You must be able to communicate clearly.

How can you learn to communicate clearly?

  1. Make clarity of verbal expression, a top priority.
  2. Try to use numbers in your speech.
  3. Give definitions for all your major terms.
  4. Speak in affirmative terms. We are interested to know only what you can, do about it.
  5. Distinguish between objective and subjective language. Use the right kind of language for the intended purpose.

Thank you.

FREE Training Needs Analysis Free Training Needs Analysis Logo

FREE Training Needs Analysis!

In order to get the best from your training, you need to discover your relative strengths and weaknesses. Take our FREE training needs analysis questionnaire now and get a report in less than five minutes!

Blogs by Email

Do you want to receive an email whenever we post a new blog? The blogs contain article 5-10 minutes long - ideal for reading during your coffee break!

Your Comments

Further Reading in Communication - Clear Communication

  • Better Work Relationships
    Developing your ability to create and maintain excellent relationships will help you enjoy more success in every aspect of your life.
    Read Article >
  • The Importance of Communication Skills
    Use these three simple tips, to make sure that you communicate your message to others, in such a way as to gain their co-operation and agreement.
    Read Article >
  • How to Communicate Positive Feedback
    People are very quick to give negative feedback, but it is even more important to communicate positive feedback. Correctly given, positive feedback can be much more effective in getting people to change their behaviour or attitude.
    Read Article >
  • Why we love logic
    To be successful and achieve your goals, you must act on logic and be rational when dealing with people.
    Read Article >
  • How can I improve my communication skills?
    How can I improve my communication skills? Do you have problems expressing yourself, verbally? Many people do. Many people have problems finding the words to express their thoughts, ideas, opinions and feelings. This lack of verbal expression is a problem since, to achieve your goals, you need to gain the cooperative...
    Read Article >