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Boost performance with staff training that gives managers clear rules, calm words and assertive skills to handle difficult staff and cut workplace conflict.

Chris Farmer, Founder of Corporate Coach Group

“Train your leaders to set firm rules, speak with clarity, manage conflict with reason and act with quiet strength; these four skills turn lateness, rudeness and cynicism into respect, focus and teamwork.”

Chris Farmer — Founder, Corporate Coach Group

Help With My Staff Training

Help With My Staff Training

Do you want help with training your staff? Do you want to help your managers and team leaders in handling difficult members of staff?

These are the common problematic behaviours which occur when dealing with the difficult staff:

  • Staff arriving late for work and meetings.
  • Inappropriate language. Rudeness.
  • Unprofessional conduct.
  • Unfair treatment.
  • Negativity and cynicism.
  • Being Uncooperative.

The skills your staff need to develop, in order to help them deal with these problematic behaviours are:

  1. Definite code of conduct.
  2. Clear communication skills.
  3. Conflict management skills.
  4. Assertiveness skills

1. Definite code of conduct.

The leader needs to be clear about what behaviours are RIGHT and which are WRONG. We all need a set of clear standards that can be properly applied to every member of staff. Without a definite code of conduct then there is danger that anything goes.

The staff member with the strongest personality wins the day. Which may not lead to the best results because some people with strong personalities, have lousy standards.

The team leader needs to set out a "code of conduct" and gain agreement from the staff that these standards are "fair and good". They then are applied to every member of the staff in the same way, without fear or favour.

A clear code of conduct should form a large part of your staff development training.

2. Clear communication skills.

Now we have a code of conduct in mind, we have to be able to communicate that message to everyone in the staff group.

The message needs to be clear, persuasive and positive. Failure to properly communicate organisational standards is one of the main reasons why standards are broken.

Others say, "I did not realise I was supposed to!" or "I did not realise I was NOT allowed to!"

Clear communication skills should form a part of your staff development training.

3. Conflict management skills.

Even though you have communicated clear standards, some people will break them. Which then brings you into a conflict situation.

Conflict management skills, therefore, become an important part of your staff training.

You need to know how to manage conflicts, according to the principles of reason.

You need to know how to avoid conflicts degenerating into an emotional meltdown.

Your staff need to know how to keep the emotions out of their language and deal with conflicts in a calm, rational and professional manner.

They need to keep their feelings out of their language.

To do this is not easy and it takes training to learn how to do it effectively.

Conflict management should form a part of your staff development training.

4. Assertiveness skills.

There are staff who have strong personalities, but terrible work habits. Some people who have strong personalities are the same ones who have previous convictions for:

  • Recurrent lateness.
  • Inappropriate language.
  • Unfair treatment.
  • Negativity and cynicism
  • Being Uncooperative.

So the staff leaders need to develop a sense of assertiveness.

Assertiveness is an emotion and a form of communication. The assertive emotion is one which won't accept being pushed around by a strong personality.

Assertive communication is made up of three things: Correct use of language. Correct body language. Correct voice tones.

Therefore staff coaching and mentor training needs to include elements of assertiveness training. Specifically:

  1. Emotional management.
  2. Assertive but not aggressive body language.
  3. Voice control
  4. Assertive but non-aggressive spoken language.

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code of conduct

A code of conduct is a workplace policy that sets clear rules for right and wrong behaviour. It applies to every person in the team, without favour. Staff agree that the rules are fair, so they accept them. Leaders use the code to guide praise and to correct anyone who breaks the rules.

CG4D Definition

Context: Business
Genus: Policy

  • States clear rules for right and wrong behaviour
  • Applies equally to every staff member without favour
  • Gains prior agreement from staff on fairness of rules
  • Guides leaders when praising or correcting conduct

Article Summary

Train your leaders to set firm rules, speak with clarity, manage conflict with reason and act with quiet strength; these four skills turn lateness, rudeness and cynicism into respect, focus and teamwork.

Chris Farmer, Founder of Corporate Coach Group

Written by Chris Farmer

Founder & Lead Trainer, Corporate Coach Group

Chris Farmer is the founder of the Corporate Coach Group and has over 25 years experience designing and delivering leadership and management training across both the public and private sectors. His programmes are structured, practical and built around real-world performance. Read more about Chris and the story of how the Corporate Coach Group was founded.

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Key Statistics

LinkedIn Workplace Learning Report 2024 shows that 87% of HR leaders plan to raise spending on manager soft-skills training, with conflict management listed as the number-one gap to close this year.

CIPD Learning at Work Survey 2024 reports that organisations that give managers regular communication and behaviour training see 23% fewer formal employee relations cases within twelve months.

Frequently Asked Questions

Common questions about this topic

A code of conduct sets clear, agreed rules for right and wrong behaviour. It guides praise and correction, so every employee knows the standards and managers can handle difficult staff fairly.
Use plain words, positive tone and examples. Repeat key points in meetings, email and visuals. Ask staff to paraphrase the rules back, proving clear communication and shared understanding.
Stay calm, focus on facts, and speak in neutral language. Separate people from problems, seek shared goals, and agree next actions. These conflict management skills keep reason in charge.
Assertive speech states needs firmly yet shows respect. It uses steady voice, open posture and objective words. Aggressive speech blames, shouts or threatens. Assertiveness skills let managers protect standards without bullying.
Lateness often stems from unclear rules, weak habits or low commitment. Re-state the code of conduct, explore reasons, set targets and follow up. Consistent manager training ensures fair, prompt action.
Negativity may hide frustration, fear or lack of purpose. Leaders can counter it by sharing clear goals, praising good conduct and involving staff in solving problems, which turns workplace attitude around.
Focus on four pillars: code of conduct creation, clear communication, conflict management and assertiveness. Together they give managers practical tools to handle difficult staff and boost team performance.

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