How to Ask the Right Questions - Good Communication Skills
How to Ask the Right Questions
Good communication is not just about the proper presentation of ideas. Good communication also means developing the ability to ask the right questions.
How can you know what are the right questions? Simple. Learn the following method.
Essentially there are two sets of questions that you should think about.
- Set one: A set of questions that relate to people, things and ideas. (ie the subjects and objects of sentences).
- Set two: A set of questions that relate to verbs, (verbs are words denoting actions, or states).
Set one questions are Adjective questions. Set two questions are Adverb questions.
Have a look at the simple sentence in this diagram. The men ate the cakes
The set one questions are:
- Which ones?
- What kind?
- Whose?
- How many?
These questions apply to subjects and objects of sentences.
On the other hand, set two questions relate to the verbs of sentences. The set two questions (Adverb questions are):
- Where?
- How?
- When?
- Why?
- For what purpose?
- For what causes?
Learn these two lists of questions. Whenever you listen or read something, find the "doer" of the sentence and apply the set one questions.
Then find the verb, or action, of the sentence and apply the set two questions.
Look at this easy example: The bird is singing in the tree.
- Which bird?
- What kind of bird?
- How many birds?
- Whose bird?
The bird is singing in the tree.
- Where is it singing?
- How is it singing?
- When is it singing
- Why is it singing?
- For what purpose is it singing?
- What caused it to sing?
The bird is singing in the tree.
- Which tree?
- What kind of tree?
- How many trees?
- Whose tree?
This simple system of asking questions is easy. Learn it, apply it and you will get great results.
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Definition: Two-set Question Method
In business communication, the Two-set Question Method is a simple method. It splits every question into two clear groups, one for nouns and one for verbs. Each group holds a fixed list of core questions. Users apply the lists to test each sentence, uncover gaps and sharpen meaning.
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- Splits questions into two predefined sets: adjective questions and adverb questions
- Aligns each set with sentence parts: nouns for set one, verbs for set two
- Uses fixed core lists (four adjective queries, six adverb queries) that must stay intact
- Serves to test and improve the clarity, accuracy and completeness of spoken or written statements
Article Summary
Good talk grows from good questions. When you ask the right questions-who, what, which, where, why and how-you break each sentence into parts, spot gaps and guide the talk. This two-list method lifts listening, sharpens writing and boosts trust in every chat.
Frequently Asked Questions
Here are some questions that frequently get asked about this topic during our training sessions.
What is the Two-set Question Method in clear words?
How do adjective questions help me ask the right questions?
When should I use adverb questions during a talk?
Can this questioning technique improve my writing as well as speaking?
What common mistake should I avoid when learning this method?
How can I practise the two sets quickly each day?
Is the method suitable for children learning grammar?
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Did You Know: Key Statistics
The 2023 LinkedIn Workplace Learning Report says 91% of workers feel that managers who ask clear follow-up questions build stronger trust. A 2024 McKinsey Global Survey finds teams that use a set method for asking questions solve problems 28% faster than those that do not.About the Author: Chris Farmer
Chris Farmer is the founder of the Corporate Coach Group and has many years' experience in training leaders and managers, in both the public and private sectors, to achieve their organisational goals, especially during tough economic times. He is also well aware of the disciplines and problems associated with running a business.
Over the years, Chris has designed and delivered thousands of training programmes and has coached and motivated many management teams, groups and individuals. His training programmes are both structured and clear, designed to help delegates organise their thinking and, wherever necessary, to improve their techniques and skills.
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