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The Difference Between Objective and Subjective Reality

Learn why objective reality must lead subjective reality. Explore clear steps to put facts over feelings in daily decision making and lift personal growth.

Chris Farmer, Founder of Corporate Coach Group

“Objective reality gives firm facts, while subjective reality offers private feelings. Let facts lead and feelings follow; you will think clearly, choose wisely and gain steady personal growth.”

Chris Farmer — Founder, Corporate Coach Group

The Difference Between Objective and Subjective Reality

The Difference Between Objective and Subjective Reality

There are two realities:

  1. Objective reality - "the world out there".
  2. Subjective reality - "the world in here".

1. Objective reality is "existence as such". The world of facts. Independent of anyone's thoughts, opinion or feelings.

Knowledge of objective reality is gained by the five senses of sight, hearing, touch, taste, smell.

2. Subjective reality is the inner world of the mind. The world of emotions and feelings. It is composed of one's own thoughts, opinion and judgements and emotions.

It is important to distinguish between these two worlds and to know which one takes precedence.

The most important thing to remember is: Objective takes precedence over subjective.

Or, to put it more simply, facts trump feelings.

In philosophy, this principle is called, "The primacy of existence".

Consequences of the primacy of existence include:

  1. The subjective feelings should conform themselves to objective facts.
  2. Your feelings do not change the facts.
  3. A refusal to accept a fact, does not make the fact disappear.
  4. If your theory does not fit the facts, your theory is wrong.
  5. Before you form an opinion, find the facts.
  6. Don't form an opinion and THEN look for the facts that will support it, (and suppress or ignore the facts that contradict it).

The opposite and the wrong view is called, "The primacy of consciousness", or more commonly, "Mind over matter".

This erroneous way of thinking is doomed to fail, because the person sets-up his mind and emotions as the primary standard, against which "reality" is measured.

Then the person finds the reality of facts refuses to conform with his subjective desires, and he feels "the universe is all wrong".

Everyone has different opinions, therefore he concludes there are no such things as facts, only opinions and concludes that certain knowledge is impossible.

In physics they called this perpetual self-doubt, "the uncertainty principle".

The world does not comply with their wishes, so they feel depressed.

Points to remember:

Don't believe anyone who says certainty is impossible - ask them if they are sure about that?

Keep your eyes, ears, and mind open.

Always be ready to change your opinion, as you gather more knowledge.

Keep your emotions under control.

Have an outward-looking mind.

Don't waste too much time introspecting.

Say to yourself, "Facts are facts, whether I know them or not, like them or not, agree with them or not. I will base my reactions on the facts, NOT my feelings".

"Ultimately, however, conflict lies not in objective reality, but in people's heads. Truth is simple, one argument - perhaps a good one, perhaps not - for dealing with the difference. The difference itself exists because it exists in their thinking." Martin Luther

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objective reality

Objective reality is the outer world of facts. It does not rely on what anyone thinks or feels. We learn it through our five senses. It stays the same even if we ignore it, and we should use it to test our ideas and feelings.

CG4D Definition

Context: Personal development
Genus: Concept

  • Exists independent of any person’s mind or feeling
  • Can be observed through sight, hearing, touch, taste and smell
  • Stays the same whether accepted or denied
  • Acts as the measure for judging thoughts and feelings

Article Summary

Objective reality gives firm facts, while subjective reality offers private feelings. Let facts lead and feelings follow; you will think clearly, choose wisely and gain steady personal growth.

Chris Farmer, Founder of Corporate Coach Group

Written by Chris Farmer

Founder & Lead Trainer, Corporate Coach Group

Chris Farmer is the founder of the Corporate Coach Group and has over 25 years experience designing and delivering leadership and management training across both the public and private sectors. His programmes are structured, practical and built around real-world performance. Read more about Chris and the story of how the Corporate Coach Group was founded.

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Key Statistics

CIPD Good Work Index 2024 shows 71% of UK managers say data-driven choices lift team results, up from 55% in 2021.

A YouGov poll (Jan 2024) finds 62% of British adults think people lean on feelings over facts when shaping views, up from 49% in 2020.

Frequently Asked Questions

Common questions about this topic

Objective reality is the outer world of real facts, existing whether we notice it or not. It is independent of any person’s feelings, wishes or opinions.
Subjective reality is the private inner world of thoughts and emotions. It changes from person to person and depends on personal judgements, hopes and fears.
Sight, hearing, touch, taste and smell gather hard evidence from the outside world. Using these senses lets us test ideas against objective reality instead of relying on guesswork.
Facts stay steady, while feelings shift. Basing decision making on real world facts reduces error and bias, leading to safer choices and faster personal growth.
The primacy of existence states that objective reality comes first and must guide our thoughts. Feelings should adjust to facts, never the other way round.
'Mind over matter' thinking places inner feelings above facts. Ignoring objective reality often breeds false theories, poor results and frustration when the outside world fails to match wishes.
Start with evidence, list facts before judging, keep emotions calm, ask others to challenge you and change your view when new data appears. These habits build objective thinking.

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