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Grievances at Work

Prevent grievances at work and handle employee complaints fast with a six-step method that cuts costs and boosts morale through clear manager communication.

Chris Farmer, Founder of Corporate Coach Group

“Grievances at work waste time and money, yet most vanish when leaders speak clearly, act fairly and follow a simple six-step plan: listen, show care, ask, answer, confirm and close.”

Chris Farmer — Founder, Corporate Coach Group

Grievances at Work

Grievances in the Workplace

Grievances at work can be time consuming.

There are two approaches that may be used to handle grievances in the workplace.

  1. Prevent grievances from happening, by eliminating their causes.
  2. When grievances do occur, handle them effectively.

Let us look at the two approaches and build two methods.

Prevention is better than cure.

Grievances are usually caused by one of four things.

  1. What someone did.
  2. What someone failed to do, or
  3. What someone said.
  4. What someone failed to say.

If you can improve the quality of the performance, and especially the language, of the key members of your management and leadership team, then the incidents of grievances will be reduced.

If there are certain people whose behaviour or language tends to generate problems, then you may want to train them.

Train them on personal effectiveness skills and ask them to stop doing the things that cause the problems, (which is often the way they communicate to colleagues).

If you want to prevent the grievances, then send your managers on our two-day leadership programme.

What if you cannot prevent it and you have an existing grievance?

Six-Step Method to Handling Grievances

These six steps will help you handle grievances effectively:

  1. Listen without interruption.
  2. Empathise (without implying agreement).
  3. Question to get the facts (apart from the feelings).
  4. Answer: Logically evaluate the facts and formulate your answer.
  5. Confirm: Ensure they understand your answer.
  6. Close the conversation or change the subject, when understanding has been reached.

Summary: How to handle grievances in the workplace

If you want to learn more about how to effectively handle grievances at work, please take a look are our Conflict Management training course.

It is worth memorising this list and remember the method, next time you need to handle a grievance.

  1. Listen.
  2. Reflect.
  3. Question.
  4. Answer.
  5. Confirm.
  6. Close.

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workplace grievance

Context: Business | Genus: complaint | Differentia: 1. Raised by an employee about a work matter; 2. Claims harm or unfairness caused by an action, inaction, words or omissions at work; 3. Submitted through the employer’s set procedure; 4. Seeks a clear reply and practical remedy.

CG4D Definition

Context: Business
Genus: Complaint

  • Raised by an employee about a work matter
  • Claims harm or unfairness caused by an action, inaction, words or omissions at work
  • Submitted through the employer’s set procedure
  • Seeks a clear reply and practical remedy

Article Summary

Grievances at work waste time and money, yet most vanish when leaders speak clearly, act fairly and follow a simple six-step plan: listen, show care, ask, answer, confirm and close.

Chris Farmer, Founder of Corporate Coach Group

Written by Chris Farmer

Founder & Lead Trainer, Corporate Coach Group

Chris Farmer is the founder of the Corporate Coach Group and has over 25 years experience designing and delivering leadership and management training across both the public and private sectors. His programmes are structured, practical and built around real-world performance. Read more about Chris and the story of how the Corporate Coach Group was founded.

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Key Statistics

Acas research (2021) finds workplace conflict costs UK employers £28.5 billion a year, or about £1,000 for every employee.

CIPD Good Work Index 2024 reports that 25% of UK workers experienced a workplace dispute or conflict in the previous 12 months.

Frequently Asked Questions

Common questions about this topic

Most grievances arise from what someone did, failed to do, said or failed to say, sparking a sense of unfairness.
Stopping causes early saves time and money. Clear speech and fair acts by leaders reduce problems before they become formal grievances.
Speak clearly, act fairly and tackle small issues fast. Train staff who upset others, so poor words or deeds do not grow.
Listen, empathise, question, answer, confirm and close. Use each step in order to guide the talk and settle the point raised.
Silent listening helps the person feel heard, reveals full facts and calms emotion, giving you the clear details needed.
Reflect feelings: "I see that upset you." Use calm voice and open stance, yet make no promise until facts are tested.
Close once both sides confirm they grasp the answer and next steps. If clear, end the meeting or change subject.

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