Is Using Hand Gestures Considered Aggressive?
Definition. Hand gestures are a form of non-verbal communication. Some are considered aggressive.
There are three kinds of hand gestures.
- Aggressive.
- Ambiguous.
- Non-aggressive, conciliatory gestures.
Let us look at each in turn.
1. Aggressive hand gestures.
There are many hand gestures that are universally considered aggressive. The three most common are:
Finger point. If the first digit is used to point at the other person, then that is a threat signal and perceived as aggressive.
Clenched Fist. If a fist is clenched, and held up, then that is a very strong threat signal and is overtly aggressive.
Middle finger. If the middle finger is held up, then that is an obscene gesture and is insulting and aggressive.
2. Ambiguous: Gestures that may or may NOT be considered aggressive.
There are many gestures that may be considered by some to be aggressive and others not. These include:
1. Waving arms around as you talk, to emphasise emotions.
To some cultures, such as the Italian culture, arm gesticulations are common and accepted. But to a typical English listener, the same gesticulations may be considered excessive and even aggressive.
2. Flat hand, karate chop gesture.
In order to emphasise points, some speakers use an open-handed chopping gesture. This may be considered to be assertive and strong by some, and an aggressive gesture by others. It depends on the full context and the psychology of the person witnessing the gesture.
3. The thumb-forefinger ring gesture.
In some cultures, the gesture signifies "Perfect!". But the same gesture, in other cultures is considered obscene, insulting and aggressive.
4. Folded arms, across the chest.
Some people consider this gesture to be a sign of self-confidence, or of relaxation, or of aggression. The exact meaning of crossed arms depends on what is being said, and to whom.
Non-aggressive, conciliatory gestures.
Many gestures are the diametric opposite of aggression; they are conciliatory and pacifying. They include:
Single open hand down - This gesture implies the message, "Please calm down".
Two open hands up - Holding two open hands up, implies the message, "Please back off". It is used if the other person is perceived as being aggressive.
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aggressive hand gesture
In business talk, an aggressive hand gesture is a non-verbal cue that shows threat or anger. It is made with a strong hand shape, like a pointed finger or raised fist, that upsets the other person, breaks polite body rules and often hurts trust unless the culture reads it in another way.
CG4D Definition
Context: Business communication
Genus: Non-verbal cue
- Shows threat or anger
- Made with a clear hand shape or move such as pointing or a fist
- Triggers fear, anger or defence in the receiver
- Breaks polite body language rules in most work cultures
Article Summary
Your hands talk louder than your voice. Know that the finger point, clenched fist and raised middle finger scream threat, open palms calm, and many moves sit between, judged by culture and context. Master the difference and you guide mood, protect respect and sharpen every part of your communication.