Know When to Stop
Know When to Stop
One of the most important things we all should learn to do is to: Know when to stop.
NOT knowing when to stop is the cause of very many failures.
In history, there are very many famous examples of when NOT knowing when to stop, caused the person to carry on too far, and that lead to their ultimate failure.
For example:
- Napoleon Bonaparte did not know when to stop and that lead to his military defeat.
- Margaret Thatcher did not know when to stop and that lead to her political defeat.
In both cases, they did not know when to stop; so they went too far; and were ultimately, stopped by others.
You too need to know when to stop...
- Waiting for things to change.
- Talking too much.
- Eating too much.
- Working too much.
- Resting too much.
1. You need to know when to stop waiting for things to change
Many people are holding off taking action: they are waiting for circumstances to be more favourable.
John says, "Before I make the changes, I want to get Christmas out of the way. But then, there is New Year; so maybe, I'll start next year. But then, I need to take into account that there is a general election in the spring and there might be a change of government; so maybe I had better wait until after the general election before I really, swing into action..."
My point is this; Don't wait for change. Instead, "Do what you can, with what you have, where you are"; (which is a good quote from Theodore Roosevelt).
Don't wait for change. Instead, be the agent of change.
2. You need to know when to stop talking too much
Too many people talk too much and listen too little.
Let me ask you a question: Have you ever said too much in an argument with a loved one, or at work with a colleague, have you ever lost your cool, and said something that made the situation worse?
Most of us have had experience of saying the wrong thing, at the wrong time. You may need to learn when to stop talking and instead, to listen.
3. Eating too much
We are all encouraged to over eat. Advertisements show us what delicious foods are available. There are cakes and chocolate, and biscuits and crisps everywhere we go. And cookery shows on TV and celebrity chefs, and Christmas celebrations and fast food outlets everywhere.
If you are not fully conscious of how much you consume, then the chances are that you will consume too much. As a nation we are overweight.
According to the Lancet medical journal; in the UK, 67% of men and 57% of women are either overweight or obese. And more than a quarter of children are overweight or obese.
You need to be aware of your intake and know when to stop eating.
4. You need to know when to stop working
Many people work hard and long. They get up early and they stay up late. This is, in many respects, very good and admirable; but I want to draw your attention to the fact that it is unsustainable over the long stretch.
You need to recuperate and recover. If you keep taking out from your physical and mental energy, but don't build in enough rest periods that will allow for adequate recovery and growth, then you will eventually hit burn out, and will suffer negative consequences.
You need to know when to stop working and take a rest.
5. You need to know when to stop resting
The same point applies on the other side too. You need to know when to stop resting and get back to work.
Yes. You do need a tea break, but your tea break is 15 minutes long, not 35 minutes. You do need a lunch break; but your lunch break is 45 minutes; not 90 minutes. You do need to chat to colleagues about their kids, but not for too long.
You need to say to yourself and others, "Let us get back to work!"
You need to know when you have had enough rest, sufficient for recuperation and growth, and when it is time to go back to work.
Personal Development Training
In order to improve your performance, you may need to develop your personal and professional skills: meaning: skills of communication, planning, prioritisation, motivation and personal confidence. If you want to learn more, then click here for personal development training.
About the Author: Chris Farmer
Chris Farmer is the founder of the Corporate Coach Group and has many years’ experience in training leaders and managers, in both the public and private sectors, to achieve their organisational goals, especially during tough economic times. He is also well aware of the disciplines and problems associated with running a business.
Over the years, Chris has designed and delivered thousands of training programmes and has coached and motivated many management teams, groups and individuals. His training programmes are both structured and clear, designed to help delegates organise their thinking and, wherever necessary, to improve their techniques and skills.
Blogs by Email
Do you want to receive an email whenever we post a new blog? The blogs contain article 5-10 minutes long - ideal for reading during your coffee break!
Further Reading in Personal Effectiveness
-
What is Common Sense?
Do you make decisions based on instinct, rumour, guesses or fake news? Or do you take a practical, factual approach to life? If so, you have common sense. Common sense is the ability to think logically.
Read Article > -
Get the Most from Every Day
Discover how to boost your productivity in our latest blog. Learn to set clear goals, plan effectively, prioritise tasks, delegate, stay organized, take breaks, manage time, focus on one task at a time, and maintain a positive attitude.
Read Article > -
Happy at Work
Your organisation runs best when employees are working in cooperative, happy teams. Teams that possess a "positive mental attitude" are happier and more productive.
Read Article > -
How to Manage Your Emotions
If you want to control your emotions, you first have to understand why you feel the way you do. Only then can you start to make positive steps towards taking control of the way you feel and react. Be the master of your emotions!
Read Article > -
The Mind-Body Connection
The mind and body often seen as separate, are integral parts of our being. Actions guided by the mind influence the body and vice versa. To change feelings, change actions; acting confident fosters confidence. Similarly acting happy can improve mood.
Read Article >
Looking for Personal Development Training?
If you're looking to develop your Personal Effectiveness Skills, you may find this Personal Development Training Course beneficial:
Open Training Course Pricing and Availability
Next Open Course Starts in 2 days, Gloucester (M5 J11), places available